4. Closer and closer to reality

With the itinerary planned it was essential to get our flights booked and to confirm that the airline was equipped with an on board aisle chair. Most domestic flights use an aisle chair to get mobility restricted passengers to their seats but don't actually carry the chair on the plane. On a flight to Bali a few years back we were informed that he just couldn't go to the bathroom and if he had to then I would have to carry him. WTF??!! 

Going such a long distance we were confident that there would be a way, but we were obviously a little tentative and without getting too personal the many online searches we did seemed to all suggest that mobility restricted passengers should take measures (in dwelling catheters) to not have to leave their seat for the duration of the flight. 14 hours stuck in the seat was not an option.

Dickey's parents, being avid travelers had recently flown with Emirates and had done a good scope out on the A380 determining that there was a toilet that could be opened out to fit a wheelchair in. Good news! In consultation with our travel agent we secured our flights. Qantas/ Emirates code share on the A380 Melbourne - Dubai. Dubai for the night, then Dubai - Budapest. Flying out Thursday April 21st 2016 arriving in Budapest on April 23rd. The day before my 37th birthday. The trip was to celebrate Dickeys 40th birthday (which had been in March), but I was getting Budapest for my birthday. A double celebration!!

3. The Itinerary

Choosing our itinerary was possibly the most exciting process! Reminiscing about places we had been in the past, expressing our dreams of places to see. Knowing we had 8-10 weeks and Europe was our oyster!

The trip idea had originated around Dickey's dream of going over to follow the Giro d'Italia Cycling race so being in Italy in May was the main requirement.

I was desperate to see Berlin. In fact, willing to go alone and miss other countries just to see it. The place that many label as the most amazing city in the world. I had been to Munich three times previously, so it was time to go north. There was also a Berlin City Run I knew of that is held early May every year which I was very keen to line up for.

With atlas in hand we came up with our list, in time realizing that every place had already been visited by one, if not both of us! With excitement we eventually decided on two 'new' countries to include - Budapest & Croatia. We now had an outline to include Italy, Czech Republic, Germany, Spain, Croatia and Budapest.

2. Let the planning begin

With any trip comes planning, and I guess depending on the type of traveler you are dictates the amount of time given over to the pre-trip research needing to be done.
There are many types of traveler; everything from what I term the 'uber planner' who schedules the entire journey on a timeline, all bookings, excursions, museums, etc locked in ahead of time; right through to the 'Organic' traveler. The sort that just floats on the breeze and sees where the world takes you.
Dickey was most certainly an Organic type of tourist in his 20's and his tales of adventures through Mexico, Indonesia & South America never cease to amaze, impress and scare the shit out of me!
While I loved some freedom to change my mind, I also was the type to have my return flight booked and at least the first nights accommodation safely locked in.

Planning this trip needed to be entirely different. Due to the necessity of finding fully wheelchair accessible accommodation it was essential the itinerary was set and all of our nights away booked.
There was no more pretending we were carefree 20 somethings with no physical challenges! Our compromise was that we wouldn't pre-book anything else, not even our internal trains. We wanted at least some challenge and spontaneity!